jedibuttercup

Maybe not 'not there', particularly - but certainly obsessive about their POV and used to curating their fan experience to support and echo that POV. I know there's pockets like this in other fandoms - I ran into this type in HP fandom regarding my time travel story - but I encounter it *most* often in male super-Xander fans due to all my B:tVS stories. *shrug* It used to bother me more, but I end up mostly eyerolling at it now.