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This sort of thing gets talked about in seminary. Here's what they teach us: You don't have to say anything. In fact, there isn't anything you can say. What you need to do is be there, with them. Bring pictures. Talk about D. It will be uncomfortable and painful, but the worst thing you can do is try to escape or short-circuit the process to make it feel better right now. That'll just make it worse later on.