You can ask maevebran; she was here. :) I had to keep pausing the show to flail, and at one point said, "Sorry, I gotta know before it goes any further if my suspicions are right", and lo, they were.

I really, really could have done without the bottle breaking. If I could hold out hope it would all be resolved in the first episode in the fall, I would be a lot more sanguine about it. But arrrrrrrgh. At least the wedding was sweet? *sigh*